Psychology
A CONTROVERSIAL TREATMENT HAS TRANSFORMED THE LIVES OF AN AUTISTIC CHILD AND HER FAMILY
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In November 2002, Gill Cuthbert, 39, and her husband, Dave,
35, were devastated when their daughter Laura, then three, was diagnosed
as autistic. They were given hope the following January after learning about
the Son-Rise programme- a treatment system that claims to have 'cured' thousands
of autistic children. They decided to put Laura through it and the results
have been astounding. However, the cost, both financially and emotionally,
has been high. Here, Gill tells her story.
When Laura started on the programme, not long after her third birthday,
she could speak only four words and didn't understand what they meant. She
would throw awful tantrums that lasted hours. She'd hit me, pull her hair
out and even throw furniture. We couldn't get her to put clothes on. And
she wouldn't use the toilet. Now, 18 months later, she doesn't throw tantrums.
She knows thousands of words, can structure sentences, knows
basic maths, dresses herself and is toilet-trained.
It's amazing - her behaviour and social skills are at the same level, if
not beyond, other children her age. You can no longer tell she's autistic.
And it's all down to the Son-Rise programme. When we first heard about it,
we'd almost lost hope. The medical professionals said nothing could be done
and gave us a vision of Laura's future involving special schools and care
homes.
A vision of the future
But the people from Son-Rise offered something else. They showed us examples of once autistic people who have become fully functional adults and said if we followed their programme, Laura could do the same. So we decided to do it, despite the cost and the dramatic change in lifestyle it demanded. We had to do a number of courses - both here and in the US - that taught us how to implement the programme and altogether cost nearly £10,000. I had to give up a well-paid job as a salesperson and we had to build a special room in the house for Laura. This room is the key to the programme - it is where the treatment takes place and where Laura still spends around seven hours a day. She loves it there now but, in the early months, she would do anything to get out. For the first 12 weeks she had to be locked in against her will. She would scream and shout for hours on end and even try to crawl out under the door. It seemed cruel and we found it really hard at first. Others did, too, and we lost half our friends and family as a result. My brother-in- law said we were bad parents, and Laura's godmother wouldn't, and still doesn't, answer my calls. Laura was never locked up on her own, though; Son-Rise is all about one-to-one contact and either myself, Dave, one of my other children (Matthew, nine, and Mark, eight) or a volunteer were, and still are, always in the room with her. But it can seem like a form of isolation. The room was bare. You put in a mirror at the start and eventually build it up with toys and books but, initially, you must remove potential distractions. If the room has a window, a blind must be drawn - an autistic child can be engrossed for hours watching a branch blowing in the breeze. We were trying to get Laura excited by people, not things, and took every opportunity to interact on her level. Once she'd stopped throwing a tantrum and started doing something, regardless of how repetitive or ritualistic it was, we'd join in. If she was licking the mirror, we'd lick the mirror. If she was drawing zigzags on paper, we'd draw zigzags on paper. Obviously, we wouldn't join in if she started doing something completely anti-social but we wouldn't shout at her for doing it, either. We'd just say: 'We don't do that,' and wait for her to do something else.
After three months, we started to get eye contact from Laura. We'd made a
connection, opened a doorway into her world from where we were able to draw
her into ours and teach her all the behavioural and social skills she now
has.
We'll soon be sending Laura to a mainstream school and are full of hope for
her future. The past 18 months have been incredible. It hasn't been easy
and there has been a cost but for us it has been more than worth it.
A series of lectures are taking place across Britain from Sep 16 to Oct
2 offering further information and advice on the Son-Rise programme and other
new autism treatments. To find your nearest lecture and to book seats, Visit
www.son-rise.org
Edited by JAMIE WALTERS
health@ukmetro.co.uk
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